I am immensely grateful for Bravo Delta's family. I come from a family that has spread out around the country and grew up an only child. My only real remaining connection is with my mother.
I was so nervous the first time he took me to his childhood home to meet his parents. I worried that they would think I wasn't good enough. I even worried myself I wasn't good enough. He was truly amazing (I still think he's truly amazing too!).
As a mum I knew any parent would only want the best for their child but I've yet to experience the bringing-home-a-girlfriend stage. Hopefully I'm a long way off that yet. However, his family have only ever made me (and my two boys) feel completely welcome.
Thankfully I was introduced in stages to his three siblings and their partners and children as it's quite a houseful when everyone is visiting at the same time!
After the nerves had passed I enjoyed starting to feel part of the get-togethers. Everyone crowding in the living room or in the garden to catch up and enjoy each other's company. It's lovely to see a family that pulls together, rain or shine. Always willing to help each other out.
When washers and cookers and cars broke (countless times) his family were there for us every single time helping with everything. It's no wonder Bravo Delta is so amazing with a family like that.
We went visiting last weekend without him. I had expected it might feel a bit weird with him not being there but I noted how it was strange it didn't feel strange. They have been so supportive while Bravo Delta is on tour, still helping me out or just 'popping round' for chats and advice. It's reassuring to be with them, to be able to talk about him and feel part of his family.
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